A new national survey by the American Psychological Association (APA) suggests that one third of Americans are living with extreme stress while nearly half believe stress is damaging their health, their relationships, and work productivity, and that it has got worse in the last 5 years.
Three quarters of Americans (compared with 60 per cent last year) said money and work caused them the most stress, with half mentioning housing costs such as rent and mortgage as a big factor, a result that the APA suggests is linked to the US housing crisis.
Stress had a negative effect on personal and working life, was the view of nearly 50 per cent of Americans, and about one third said it was difficult to manage the responsibilities of work and family.
One quarter of Americans said that stress alienated them from a friend or family member and 8 per cent linked it to divorce or separation.. - Read Full Article
I started writing this article as “Stress in America” but slowly it changed to what my own personal theory and philosophy on the problem was.. Mastery of the mind is the key to all problems
My Thoughts..
Living in a household, where the father works 10+ hours daily at times, and the mother suffers from high cholesterol and low blood pressure, I’ve learned that stress is one thing that can slowly take down an individual’s health. It seems as if it is a kind of atrophy (not literally) in more extreme cases, where it slowly degenerates an individual mentally, and at times also physically. I personally believe, from what I have seen and from personal experience that stress becomes such a major factor in so many people’s lives. It holds many back from fulfilling their dreams and others from making an important move or decision in life. I look back 5 years, when my dad was booming in business, however, it took one loss, just one, to put a fear in his mind. The fear led to indecisiveness. Bills stacked up and it all resulted in rapidly growing stress, and I watched as it grew and spread. Many times I have noticed, when one spouse becomes a victim of stress, making it a regular part of his or her life it results in the other spouse suffering from the same problem (Stress I believe can be contagious). I don’t want to divulge deeply into this topic right now since I can talk about it for days and days (will have a in-depth article on stress soon). I just wanted to share that my personal belief on this is that individuals need to control their own mind. One can make heaven out of a prison cell and create hell from his own home. Everyone is a king, the king of their thoughts, the king of their actions, and the king of their beliefs. Bills, financial problems, emotional problems, are all a part of life and will never leave. I hear people constantly telling me that as soon as this happens or that happens or monkeys learn to fly, or if they win the lottery all their problems will be solved, and I firmly believe that is NOT TRUE. Everything is created in a person’s mind — fear, love, and stress, and one is strong enough they can tame their emotions to run as they wish. They key to problem solving is the mastery of one’s own mind. I personally struggled in a kind of depression and stress myself, and one night it ‘clicked’. I sat their thinking for hours about what my problems were, and I realized it is not the problems that are causing me pain but how I perceive the problems and what I make out of them. Now when I am stuck in a major problem, whether it be financially or emotionally I look to it as a challenge, and I know I am the king and it can’t overtake me, and if I ever do lose, whether it is to a person or to my problems I hold a type of respect and admiration for it, that hey you were able to beat a king, but it wont happen again.
For all those suffering from problems, sit there and think to yourself once more, and make that hell into a heaven.
“Managing stress is all about taking charge: taking charge of your thoughts, your emotions, your schedule, your environment, and the way you deal with problems. ”
Links:
Stress - An Epidemic
More Stress, Less Rest in America
AIS - Official Website